Step Families

Its hard for a young person to adjust into a new family, having to share their life with people who they probably know very little about, its a very difficult thing to be expected to do, but it is becoming something which is seen more and more often.

The thought of new people moving into your home can be quite upsetting, having to share your home, your bedroom, your front room, even your t.v. can be a tough thing to do. You may find it difficult because your mum or dad might have had certain things in a certain place or they may have used something that you bought for them, it can be upsetting if somebody else comes in and appears to take over what once used to belong to your mother or father.

It is hard to do, but in time it will become easier, having to share and start new relationships with new people isn’t something you should be negative about, try to look at the positive parts of it, new friends, new adults and you never know it might be fun!!

Parents sometimes forget to talk to their children about changes which effect all the family, if you feel as if you haven’t been asked about a new family or adult coming to live with you or about going to live with a new family tell your mum or dad. It is a decision which you should be involved in, it will effect the rest of your life too.

Parents don’t mean to forget the feelings of their children but sometimes they get too involved with what is best for them and forget about their children. If you feel like you are in this situation why don’t you go down stairs, switch the t.v. off and ask to talk to your mum or dad and explain how you feel. Communicating with your parents isn’t something to be ashamed about, in fact your mates will be impressed if you can talk to your parents.

If you feel as if you cant talk to your parents or another member of your family you can contact Jonny on the message boards or you can ring Childline 0800 11 11. The call is free and they will listen to what you have to say, don’t be afraid to ask for help.

Child Line:

Tel: 0800 11 11
www.childline.co.uk