It is a proven fact that people say they are having sex when they actually haven’t, if one of your friends says they have or are having sex the chances are is that they haven’t. Every body tells a lie sometimes, the only difference here is that some people lie about having sex, giving the wrong impression about them and the wrong information to their mates. The bottom line is DON’T HAVE SEX UNTIL YOU ARE READY!!!!
In this country it is illegal for ANYBODY!! To have sex under the age of 16, you might think that this age limit is too high or too low, what ever your view is you aren’t legally allowed to have sex until you are at least 16!!. This doesn’t mean that you should enter a sexual relationship as soon as you turn 16, if you aren’t in a relationship you are comfortable with there is no need to have sex, WAIT UNTIL YOU ARE READY, never let anybody talk you into having sex, it is YOUR CHOICE!!!!
Some people don’t have sex until they 18, 21 or even older, it isn’t something that you have to rush into, you will only loose your virginity once, make sure that you are in a relationship you are 100% happy with.
Many young people have great anxieties and concerns when they think about having sex for the first time, they feel nervous and may not be comfortable with taking their clothes off. The key to entering a sexual relationship with a partner is through communication, you should talk to each other about it first. This will reassure you about entering a sexual relationship or it might even prove to you that you don’t feel ready. Talking through a sexual relationship will ease any concerns you have and might even strengthen your relationship, honesty and openness is vital for a successful relationship.
Before you even consider having sex YOU MUST THINK ABOUT CONTRACEPTION, this will reduce the chances of becoming pregnant (although its not 100%) and it will also reduce the risks of you spreading or becoming infected by a sexually transmitted infection.
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